You know what? The above meme may have been intended to come off snarky, but as a club patron that’s exactly what I was in the club for. Not to see boobs, not to touch, not to pick up a hot chick — I was in there because it was the one place I knew that someone would be nice to me and spend as much time with me as I wanted, as long as I held up my end of the bargain. And you know what else? I enjoyed every damn minute of it, and considered the time and money I spent in clubs to be the best entertainment value I’ve ever had.
And I got to see boobs at the same time. What a deal!
Idk if you answer your asks but I just found you again and now I'm just reading that you're resigning from this blog! Congratulations on getting married of course :)
Thanks! Yeah, finding somebody who I want to spend every waking moment with for the rest of my life has kinda cut down on the wanting to go out to the club thing, and has made me feel like I don’t really belong on here portraying myself as a “Club Patron” when I don’t even go anymore. But I’m trying to keep contact with as many of my stripper friends as I can (one is even going to act as my best “man?” at my wedding) and I’ll always treasure the memories and the people. My life is a much richer, better one because of the wonderful folks who I’ve met in the clubs.
I went in on a Wednesday and audtitioned. I had read online they were hiring and saw they opened at 6pm. I showed up at 6:45pm to see the parking lot empty except for 2 cars, the first had a an older man with a cowboy hat and long gray ponytail and the other was a girl chain smoking on her phone….
We make money from tips and dances. That’s it. We do not get paychecks or tax returns.
So: everyone be kind to your dancers. If you are going to a strip club, go prepared and bring money. Tip if you are sitting at the tip rail, tip for your dances, and tip your waitresses. We do not get paid and hourly wage/paycheck, so what you guys give us is what we get. We also have to pay a house fee to work (for example, mine is $110.) Strip clubs and money literally go hand-in-hand, and I don’t understand how people don’t know that. So if your broke and/or aren’t looking to spend some money, DON’T GO TO THE STRIP CLUB.